ENJOY THE PROCESS | trust the timing of your life

In this world full of instant and fast changes, be that one who slows down and knows how to take a look at life and enjoy every moment of it. 



We often get pressured everytime we think that life must be in a certain type of way, like at this age I must be successful with a big house and a happy married life. But no, life does not work that way. We should stop comparing our own selves to someone else's life, especially when we see other people having a lot of achievements and success in their lives. Instead we should just be happy for them and continue to live without envy to others. Because why would you be insecure when you can make your own story a worth to read. It can be interesting, fun, happy, thrilling, sad or all the things you want to happen, it is all up to you. It is YOU who can make it more awesome. Don't spend time getting jealous because your college batch is now successful with his career, don't feel insecure when you saw your friend posted on Insta a beautiful selfie, don't feel left behind when some of your age are getting married and having kids. See? We feel all these negativities because we compare our selves to their timelines. That made us feel anxious and depressed. We often want to be on their shoes just because we saw them having a blast. Stop it. Yes I know it is easy to talk about all this positivities but if you want to be stuck there all your life then you missed everything life has to offer. There's a world out there waiting for us to explore and experience. If you feel down right now, I hope you can get the courage to crawl, yes if you can not stand up right away then crawl, atleast you are moving. Not fast but slowly and it is better than not doing anything at all. You can take your time getting better, it doesn't need to happen in a blink of an eye, just enjoy your journey on being the best version of your self. Do whatever that makes your heart happy as long as you don't do harm to others. Go dance in the rain, take your bestie and have a stargazing nightout, ride and chill with music without a certain destination. Get rejected, get your heartbroken, get failed and just experience it all. It is all part of the journey, it does not have to be rainbows and butterflies all the time. 

Remember, life is not a race. Those who are actually happy are the real winners. 

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